Hello Reader – Darren Webb Here
Are people really mean to you ?
They are most likely causing you problems when dealing with them, they are crazy, traitorous, Rude, dishonest etc etc.
Your most likely creating this opinion of them yourself…..I know this is tough to swallow but let me explain.
Your most likely already have an opinion of these people in your own mind. You’ve already made your mind top that this person is all the above.
Let’s say, you found out that they were dealing with something that’s really overwhelming them and really shook their life, you’d probably change your opinion.
This may be the case with this person and it may not. It’s helpful to realise that you don’t know the whole story.
At the same time it is important to uphold your standards, but there is always a good way to go about it.
My this this week is to look at this in a different way.
Dont approcha this person with your mind already made up on the idea that they are already mean.
Dont entertain ANY negative feedback they may give you ….Try to dilute the situation with some positive replies. Give them encouragement that your not there to make them angry.
Give this a try , stay calm ….if after 2-3 attempts maybe this person is not open to help. Walk away
Hope this helps
Gratefully
Darren Webb